My colleague and I decided to get married a few days back -early November. We have known each other as friends for the last year and a half and only in the last 4-6 months we took interest in each other.
We understand each other well and respect each others values. We love and care for each other a lot.
When we did take this matter to our parents, his mother did oppose this proposal strongly stating that he cannot marry me because i am 11 months older than me and that it is a SIN in hindu religion to marry an older woman.
We did take some expert advice - astrology and hindu priests suggestions - these are the findings -
- His natal chart suggests that he would marry a girl of his choice and someone who is slightly elderly
- My natal chart suggests that I would marry a boy who is slightly younger or of similar age
- And that marrying a younger girl is just a practice and not a stated rule in Hindu religion
The thing is we need to build our case to prove his mother that we love each other and that it is destiny (we personally feel the same way) for us to be together.
So can any expert tell us if this is the case - and what aspect in our natal chart suggests that?
My DOB - 13-01-1983, 10: 27 AM, Udupi Karnataka
His DOB - 15-12-1983, 8:00 AM, Tuticorin , TN
I am asking for facts so that there is no discrepancy across any astrologers his mother may want to consult.
Also if possible, kindly let me know if we would sail across this turbulent period successfully.
The opposition is so strong that he is unable to concentrate at his work nor is he able to go home. And I am feeling very depressed because all was well before I came in his life and now I feel that I am the reason for his difficult times. I want to be with him all my life, but not causing him this much trouble.
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