I've been reading the lessons at the Himalayan Academy website. Today I read this in Merging with Śiva:
I've been having limited experiences of the Self, of oneness, since I was about 13. Ever since then, I've had that experience over the years. In the last few years it has gotten more frequent and more intense.How can we know when we're ready to know the Self? How do we know when the soul is spiritually mature? When we begin a journey and clearly define our destination, then we must begin from where we are, not elsewhere. Clearly defining our destination requires knowing where we are, requires determining whether or not we want to go there at this time. We must ask whether we have the means, the willpower, to get there. Are we ready to leave the world, or must we fulfill further obligations in the world and to the world? Have we paid all of our debts? We cannot leave the world with karmas still unresolved. Perhaps we desire something more, some further human fulfillment of affection, creativity, wealth, professional accomplishment, name and fame. In other words, do we still have worldly involvements and attachments? Are we ready for the final journey life has to offer? Are we prepared to endure the hardships of sadhana, to suffer the death of the ego? Or would we prefer more pleasures in the world of "I" and "mine"? It is a matter of evolution, of what stage of life we have entered in this incarnation--is it charya, kriya, yoga or jnana? When the soul is spiritually mature, we know when we're ready to know the Self.
About 2 years ago, I had such an experience that lasted with me for at least a month or two. My own egoic doubts and fears came to me and brought me out of it eventually. But it was the deepest I had ever gotten.
Since then, I can generally trigger that state by will, though I cannot remain in it for long periods of time.
Anyway, this paragraph made me think. I run my own business, which has been a dream of mine since I was about 16 years old. I am married, so the choice is between running my business, or getting a job where I work for someone else, of course.
I do get anxious about money, but only so that my wife and I can have enough to get by. Largely I try to focus on my customers, and I often charge less than I could.
But the above quote made me think, am I doing the right thing? I mean, I am living a married life, so realistically I have to work one way or another. But I know it is important not to get caught up in material gains, and that is certainly not the type of person I am. I care about God and seeking Him.
Many times, God takes all of my attention. I am trying to keep a balance though, of course. My desire above all is to reach mokṣa, but of course I have a family to take care of, too.
I guess I just want to make sure I seek God as I should, while making sure I am a responsible husband. Is this possible?
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