" While being abducted, Sita flapped her limbs like a caged bird, shrieked and shouted but there was none to come to her rescue. On the way she left a trail by dropping her ornaments."

So in a strange way is your situation. But you see, in this confusing, shrieking suffering, you drop the very thing that will be used to let Rama find you even more directly. Such can be the nature of life.

"While looking for Sita the trail of ornaments led the two brothers to Jatayu who told them all about the abduction of Sita by Ravana and then he breathed his last on Rama’s lap."

Rama is closer now.