Hello!
I have been meditating in many manners from the age 14 onwards but now I have meditated for 4 years already in the Zen-way 4 hours every day from 03-07 and I sleep just 3 hours from 00:00 to 03:00.I am almost about 80&enlightened.But I cannot go further because when I "have" sex I lose ALL of my meditative-consciousness for at least for 3 days before I´m back to my normal level of consciousness.And when I have sex about 2 times a week, my consciouness CANT lift itself all the way to enlightenement.This kind life is very bad because I feel like my meditation is going nowhere but I do it anyway because I´m so patient.)
I dont have sex with anyone(I am still a virgin at 31 years of age because I am so much a buddhist that I think that sex is disgusting (though when I
meditate I dont find it disgusting anymore,then its just doesnt bother me
like everything else.)and also I never want lose my chance to be able to meditate better without no lust clouding my mind.),and I dont even masturbate,It just happens when I sleep.
And I do everything that anyone should do for not having sex:I eat only little,I dont do anthing "disturbing" like watch tv of play games,I dont either eat meat or smoke or drink alcohol.I eat only rise and some vegetables.I just live a very ascetic life.
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I know that some people who meditate do practice sex but I have no idea how could I ever so do and dont know either that how can they do so.
I have always had terrible spiritual trouble with sex(When I used to masturbate when I was working in a daycare center when I was 22,I lost all of my "sensitive feelings" for the children for again about 3 days which felt horrible and disgusting because I dont want to live that kind of life.).
But at least now I know how to get rid of sex easilly:the only thing that has ever done that for me In just a few hours of meditation was Krsna Consciousness and its Krsna-Mantra meditation.In fact they are the only people in existence that can live normal lives and live in the city and still easily not to have sex.And they are not even allowed to have sex because LIKE ME it makes them come back to body-consciouness (normal consciousness) for at least a day.So I know what I have to do:I will become a Krsna-Bhakti-Monk in a few years time when I have enlightened myself first in the "Buddha-manner" if I just can(because I have meditated for so long that It is very difficult to change meditation and I also want to experience both enlightenenements because I´m so far in the Buddha-meditation.
I know that Krsna-consciouness has a very different philosophy compared
to Buddhism,but I have studied it completely and find to be the correct one
and not buddhism anymore.I even have a Krsna-master who is ready to
initate me when I am ready.
Krnsa-Bhaktis have sex,but ONLY when they reproduce and even then they
meditate.
And in Krsna-consciouseness beign a virgin is EXTREMELY important:it
gives a thousand times more clarity and concentration.
In Krsna-consciousness it is known that the monks that dont have sex live much longer and are much healthier than the ones who do(and having sex is worse for men than for women which may explain the fact that men almost always fall asleep after having sex because their body has experieced something bad).
And the same is true with "5 tibetan rites" in which even normal buddhist monks can stop having sex(if they do the 6 rite):they live almost 100-150 years and are MUCH More powerful! I have also used these 5 tibetan rites myself so that I was 2 months without having sex and at that time I was able to push my meditation to at least to 90% enlightened.And I know that if I could still be able to use the rites,in at least about 6 months I would be competely enlightened.(The reason why I can acheive enlightenment so fast is that I have been meditating many past lifes already.)
Also I think that for me not ever having sex makes me very strong spiritually even in the Buddhist manner because its easier for me to meditate without sex bothering me.
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In fact I know how I will be able to meditate well,I will just have to do the
5 rites again(the reason why I have not been doing them all the time is
the fact that I am also very ill in many different ways wich makes meditation and doing the rites very difficult.But I have such insane pains
because of my illnesses that only that in it self will keep me meditating
because its the only thing that makes ALL of my pains go away which
incredible when you think that I have such pains that I almost want to kill
myself!!!).
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But my basic question is the fact that I am some kind of "freak":NO ONE
HAS EVER heard of ANYONE who HAS these kinds of troubles while meditating the buddha way:I mean even Buddha was supposed to have been able to have sex without it affecting his meditation at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And even in Krsna-consciouness they have never heard of anyone that has
the "bodily-consciousness" on for 3 DAYS:their furtest is just one day!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I mean REALLY:most people dont even undestand my question because it
MAKES NO SENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank You:Jack 999
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