Re: Sex in the mind
Namaste,
My suggestion, in addition to all those already offered, is: be a vegetarian.
Yet, the nature of food will take its own course, creating warmth and desire. Three steps are of help. 1. To enjoy natural sex with wife, while mentally doing mantra japa. 2. To remember that God is the goal, even when in ecstacy. 3. To remember that the attractions are objects of senses, and doings are of gunas alone, unconnected with surfaceless spirit.
Only absolute advaita realisation (by burning the ignorance of 'another', which is the cause of desire, with the light of third eye) can lead to complete freedom. Not otherwise.
So set and keep remembering your ultimate goal and leave it to God.
Om Namah Shivaya
That which is without letters (parts) is the Fourth, beyond apprehension through ordinary means, the cessation of the phenomenal world, the auspicious and the non-dual. Thus Om is certainly the Self. He who knows thus enters the Self by the Self.
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