I am finding that I am becoming more and more disconnected/disenchanted with all the "normal" things in my life. Nothing seems to be very important anymore, but not in a depressing way! In a way that is kind of like falling in love.
I look around me and I feel like everything is dulled - things that used to give me pleasure seem silly - friendships that I used to nurture seem shallow.
I feel like everything I do in my life, I want to do to please Krishna, to nurture my relationship with him. Everything else just seems like a complete waste of time.
I don't mean things like caring for my children are a waste of time, or anything of that nature.. I just mean life in general. Everything I do now I do with Krishna in my heart. When I cook a meal, I want it to be infused with love and devotion because that will please Krishna, when I do laundry, I think of how good my kids will feel with clean sheets on their bed, because I know my love towards them will please Krishna, etc. etc.
But other things.. like just chitchatting or listening to my friends gossip (which I never wanted to be a part of anyway) or even just hanging out with friends.. I don't feel as though I am better than them, that's not it.. it's just that what they believe and what I believe are so different now that it actually makes me sad to spend time with them and know that Krishna is not in their hearts. I look at their lives which used to look so full to me before - with their husbands and their kids and their playdates and movies and dinners.. and it all seems pointless to me now, now I feel like it's just a monotony of events for them because Krisha is not in their lives and if that's the case, how can they know real joy?
What is uncomfortable for me with this feeling is that I was atheist for years and years. I had no use for religion or spirituality in my world. I thought I was happy. But I really wasn't. I see that now. But I'm not used to feeling so strongly about something that wasn't a part of my life until recently (the past year-ish is when I started to become Krishna conscious). I don't talk about it with anyone in real life because I feel self-conscious about it. But at the same time, I want to shout it from the rooftops how full your life can be with Krishna in it!
Did anyone else go through this at the beginning? Does it go away? Will I be able to hang out with my atheist friends and have fun with them and do things we used to do without feeling so disconnected again?
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