Shriyash21: brilliant reply! I mean it: I can totally understand what you're pointing at. I hadn't quite thought about my experience that way (a part of the mind observing the mind: anxiety, possibly leading to mental problems...), but the way you described it... I can totally relate to. Particularly what you say about expecting a result: the mind is so tricky, that even if I fool myself completely, thinking that I am
not expecting any result, in fact
I am!
So yeah: I'm not going down that path again. I felt it was 'wrong', and I wouldn't like to loose my wits through meditations (the purpose should rather be the opposite: deep clarity).
And yes: I'm glad you also suggest that Bhakti might be a better option. This is why I began to write in this forum in the first place, to approach Bhakti. (By the way, may I aks what path of Bhakti you follow?) Perhaps, I might also try Vipassana meditation (which someone suggested to me): maybe it's less challenging. Who knows. I also tried some very basic 'concentration' exercises, like focusing on a man-made object (this was actually recommended by Rudolf Steiner, and not with any ultimate transcental goal in mind, but just as an exercise to strengthen oneself.)
I'm glad things are a little clearer for me now.
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