Re: Giving Advice
Namaste Sm78,
I admit this has crossed my mind at times when I look back over my responses to posts which explicitly ask for advice and help. I agree with AmIHindu in the sense that there are moments when I regret having written down my suggestions, feeling in retrospect that I really know nothing at all. Perhaps in this sense, it is better to remain silent for a reason (because one feels they cannot genuinely contribute something worthwhile based on personal experience), than to start theorising, well-intentioned though it be.
My thoughts are much along the line of Naya and Mana. Advice offered with a sincere, honest heart that is looking out for another jiva has the power to do more good than bad. God knows I have my own share of doubts and demons to contend with from time to time. I think many of us who are still in the lower grades of spiritual evolution are like this. It's strange then, that I sometimes notice that we can appear most blind to the problems that loom before ourselves personally, as opposed to someone else. Have you ever experienced angonizing over a problem one week, only to find a friend or colleague worrying over the same thing, and then suddenly you offer them advice on how to see it through? I guess it seems reasonable to argue that one is not qualified to give such advice, but then, perhaps because "ahamkara" is removed from that situation itself, wisdom seems to flow without effort. It seems a lot harder to convince yourself of the same sagacity when it concerns you.
Om namah Shivaya
"Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become your character.
Watch your character, it becomes your destiny."
ॐ गं गणपतये नमः
Om Gam Ganapataye namah
लोकाः समस्ताः सुखिनो भवन्तु ।
Lokaah SamastaaH Sukhino Bhavantu
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