Namaste,
Divine Kala I share in your views concerning these matters. I do not see how any of these 'rules and regulations' will lead one to Moksha. It just seems a bit outdated. I agree with your view of your husband (if you marry) being Shiva and you Shakti. This is how I view my wife and myself. We are equal. None is closer to the truth than the other. These are the rules and regulations that cause me not to label myself as a Hindu or any other thing for the matter. I consider myself upon Advaita and sometimes don't even use that term. Sometimes I say Shaivite other times I say nothing. I cannot follow any of these rules found in the many books. I would be doomed to fail.
Om Namah Shivaya
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