Re: Feeling tainted?
Namaste everyone,
My thanks to each and every one of you who responded and also those who didn't, because strangely I regretted bringing this topic the moment I hit the "post" button. Embarrassed for being so honest about what I'm going through, but I also feel strangely relieved for having admitted I'm not spiritually perfect. Not by a long shot! And yet, I realise much of what I am going through right now are just thought clouds passing through. Having experienced some troubles lately have made them prone to being of the negative kind, but they're not all negative I am most grateful to say. I will bear in mind all the advice and suggestions my fellow Hindus have shared with me.
EM, I can't thank you enough for being honest enough to admit you've had breaks yourself, and quite long ones at that. You're one of the oldest, most egoless souls I know. I can take heart from that that having a break does not necessarily mean I am no longer Hindu. I need to get this black-and-white concept of being Hindu out of my head. It isn't simply wearing a tilak, eating vegetarian foods, performing puja, or even praying to Hindu deities. It's so much more than that, but I am only slowly very slowly coming to realise that in the deeper parts of my mind, my subconscious where I've been raised to think God is this, I am that. If I sin, God will disapprove and naturally separate Himself from me and leave me feeling even more miserable. You don't know how deeply this is drilled into you when you've been raised as a Christian reading the Old Testament.
TBTL, you certainly raise some points that our more conservative Hindu brothers would argue with, but you definitely have hit the mark on some things. I believe the essence of a faith, however good can sometimes be so convoluted, so twisted from the contributions of thousands that it can seem so overwhelming to us. Is it any wonder some begin to doubt themselves and their very worth as a being deserving of God's love?
Thank you all for your compassion and welcomes back. I will begin slowly again, with just the odd bhajan every night and a look back over some of the scriptures that captured my love for Hinduism in the first place. You know, it's a bit like climbing out of the lake after you've had the most refreshing swim of your life. You take a break for whatever reason, feel a vague yearning to go back for a dip and then find it's bloody freezing again to even dip a toe back in. Weird analogy, but I honestly think it just sums up how I've been feeling about my worth as a soul who knows deep in his heart, he wants to jump straight back into those lovely waters and lose himself in them. Patience is one of the things I've been told over and over again to try and cultivate. I will slough off these negative thoughts and stoically press on. Thank you again.
Om namah Shivaya
"Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become your character.
Watch your character, it becomes your destiny."
ॐ गं गणपतये नमः
Om Gam Ganapataye namah
लोकाः समस्ताः सुखिनो भवन्तु ।
Lokaah SamastaaH Sukhino Bhavantu
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